Turns on: I am very excited by the other person's interest in wanting to make me feel pleasure. Talking about sexual fantasies turns me on a lot. I am excited by spanking and vibrations or masturbation on my clitoris... but the best excitement and pleasure I can feel is when I cum or squirt. My greatest pleasure i***nowing that the other person is crazy excited and feeling pleasure for me.. Turns off: It demotivates me a lot that they stop the excitement we were on. It turns me off when they really insult me or are rude to me, it turns me off when they only want someone to give them pleasure when they don't offer pleasure..