Turns on: Sincere compliments, role-playing games, communication with fantasy, attention of the audience, tenderness and passion, experiments, hot glances, mutual energy, unexpected surprises, creative ideas, light flirting and respect for our boundaries.. Turns off: Rudeness, insults, impoliteness, pressure, ignoring our boundaries, inappropriate requests, disregard for platform rules, toxic behavior, excessive demands and disrespect for our work and time..