Turns on: I am attracted to its ability to be strong and protective, but also vulnerable, because in the genuine connection there is true power. The way it moves, how he listens to me carefully, and the passion with which he gives himself to everything he does ... that is what really turns me up.💋. Turns off: I am vanished by a man who is not sincere with himself, who tries to be someone who is not just to impress. The empty arrogance, the lack of respect and the inability to listen make me lose all interest.🙄.